I'm tired of being the Copilot champion

— Exhausted in Edmonton

Published 2026-04-18

The letter

Dear Issy,

Six months ago I raised my hand to pilot Copilot for our department. Good demos, a few wins, leadership liked the story. Now every question lands in my inbox: prompts, policy, “why did it hallucinate my client name,” and why their summary missed the point.

I still have a day job. I’m burning out. How do I hand this off without the pilot dying—or me?

— Exhausted in Edmonton

Issy replies

You did not volunteer to become permanent unpaid IT for a moving product. Leadership liked a story. Your peers needed a human inbox. Somewhere along the way, “champion” became a job description with no hours, no deputies, and no exit. That is a staffing and accountability problem dressed up as enthusiasm.

Name what is happening without drama: the org got the benefit of a pilot while dumping enablement, policy, and emotional labour onto the person who raised their hand. That pattern burns out its best people and then wonder why adoption stalls when the hero finally says no.

Document three wins and three limits—on one page. Wins justify continuing the tool. Limits define what you will no longer absorb: live desk support, custom prompts for every VP, fixing hallucinations at 9 p.m. Hand that document to your manager as a decision package, not a complaint. You are proposing how the work gets owned next—not quitting progress.

Ask for a named owner with hours. Not “the team.” A role. If leadership wants scale, they fund enablement the way they would fund any other operational capability. Train two deputies before you step back so the knowledge does not die with your burnout. Rotation beats martyrdom.

Stepping back is not failure. Letting one volunteer carry a company-wide change forever is how organizations punish initiative. Protect the pilot by making it boring and owned. Protect yourself by refusing to be the only adult in the room forever.

— Issy (and the humans who run editorial at Aspiro)

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